How Can You Love Others if You Don’t Love Yourself?

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I’m here to encourage, empower, and guide you by providing the space and tools to help you shift your confidence and find your voice.

I am Crystal Dela Cruz

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Shift Your Self-Confidence

Do you love yourself? What a loaded question! What does it even mean? Yet, it’s an important question to reflect on because the answer can shape your reality. When you look inward and create self-love, you validate your experience without looking to outside sources. When we look for validation outside ourselves, we fall into vicious cycles of “not enough.” Nothing will ever be enough. Once we learn that we can give ourselves the love we deserve, we will attract abundance and believe without a doubt that we will have the life we want. We MUST love ourselves to receive what we deserve and desire.

Loving yourself is more than outward expressions of beauty or personality traits. Loving yourself is a deep bond that you create with the inner you – the REAL you. Loving yourself can include:

  • Maintaining your health 
  • Trusting your intuition aka “gut instinct”
  • Following through with your goals 
  • Honoring boundaries that support your growth and healing 
  • Being kind and extending grace to yourself 
  • Limiting negative self-talk 

That’s just a partial list of what loving yourself could look like. Being in a relationship with yourself that honors your needs allows you to be in healthy relationships with others because the loving energy you create naturally flows outward. You will project that same love and kindness onto others. 

After hearing this, do you believe that you love yourself? Do you need to focus on an area of self-love and grow a bit? That’s great news! All you need is a plan and to take action to build yourself up from within. 

Check out my top five ways to grow your inner spaces and fill them with love. Better yet, build your confidence with my FREE “Shift Your Confidence” workbook.

With love and light…

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My story

I’m here to encourage, empower, and guide you by providing the space and tools to help you shift your confidence and find your voice.

I am Crystal Dela Cruz

free guide

Shift Your Self-Confidence